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The effect of continuous use of social media upon the mind and heart of a child, and the measures parents may take to safeguard their well-being.

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Directly sourced from Friday Sermons, Q&A sessions and official publications — no paraphrasing.

  • Khalifatul Masih V · Virtual mulaqat

    'Mental health issues such as depression are an illness like any other' — a direct destigmatizing statement

    Mental health issues such as depression are an illness like any other and so they should be diagnosed and treated properly. No one should make fun of those suffering or take it lightly.

    Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad, virtual meeting with Waqf-e-Nau girls (UK), 8 May 2022, pressahmadiyya.com

    MTA Studios, Islamabad, Tilford, UK (virtual meeting with Waqf-e-Nau girls, UK, aged 12–15) · 2022-05-08

  • Khalifatul Masih V · Eid Sermon, discussed in a follow-up Review of Religions interview

    Isolation intensifies grief; companionship and remembrance of God ease it

    His Holiness explained Islam's concept of happiness versus grief and explained that the gathering of people together and social interaction with others is what brings happiness. By contrast, grief and sorrow are intensified when a person prefers solitude and isolation.

    'Grief, Isolation & Mental Health: A Special Interview with His Holiness', The Review of Religions, August 2019

    Not specified · 2021-05-13

  • Al Islam editorial team · 'Quest of the Curious Muslim' Q&A series

    'I feel very depressed. What can I do?' — a dedicated mental health FAQ resource

    Firstly, depression is not something to be ashamed of and one should always feel comfortable enough to open up and talk about it. It can range from being sad, due to the ups and downs of life, to a serious medical illness that needs to be treated through professional help.

    'I feel very depressed. What can I do?', The Quest of a Curious Muslim, alislam.org

    N/A — reference resource · 2020-01-01

    Verified source

    Publication: alislam.org

  • MTA / Al Islam programming team · English discussion programme on contemporary youth issues

    A recorded discussion programme dedicated entirely to depression and mental health

    An English discussion programme about contemporary social issues affecting today's youth. Today we discuss depression and mental health.

    'Depression and Mental Health', MTA programme, alislam.org video library

    N/A — broadcast programme · 2020-01-01

    Verified source

    Publication: alislam.org video library

  • Khalifatul Masih V · Concluding Address, Lajna Ima'illah UK National Ijtema 2021

    Children hiding harmful content from parents, and social media's mental-health toll

    There have been reports of children viewing inappropriate content, which they can instantly divert to a child-friendly programme when an adult enters, so the adults are left none the wiser... a report by the Wall Street Journal found that Instagram, which is owned by Facebook, tried to cover up its own internal study... It found that amongst those children in the UK who had suicidal thoughts, 13% admitted that it was their use of Instagram that had driven them to consider taking their own life.

    Concluding Address, Lajna Ima'illah UK National Ijtema, 26 September 2021, Baitul Futuh Mosque, London (Review of Religions official transcript)

    UK (national event) · 2021-01-01

    Verified source

    Publication: MTA International programme archive; cited by Al Hakam & Lajna UK Tarbiyyat Syllabus

  • Khalifatul Masih V · Friday Sermon, cited in Ask Islam FAQ

    Pornography viewing described explicitly as an addiction

    In his Friday Sermon, dated July 6, 2012, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih V (may Allah be his Helper) speaks about the issue of pornography and says that "viewing such vain things, such films is a kind of addiction". Huzoor advised against forming friendships which cause a person to further indulge in such vain pursuits.

    Friday Sermon, 6 July 2012, cited in 'The Quest of a Curious Muslim', alislam.org

    Not specified in citing resource · 2012-07-06

    Verified source

    Publication: alislam.org, 'Quest of the Curious Muslim' resource

  • Al Islam editorial team · 'Quest of the Curious Muslim' Q&A series

    A dedicated Q&A resource for pornography addiction, drawing on multiple sermons

    Advising those who are engaged in such bad habits, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih V (may Allah be his Helper) stresses that attention should be paid to remembrance of Allah, Istighfar, Durood, and prayers... pornography damages a person psychologically by putting him into the habit of objectifying women, and the human body in general. Further, it creates a view of sexuality that is far removed from reality.

    'What can I do if I am addicted to pornography?', The Quest of a Curious Muslim, alislam.org, citing Friday Sermons of 6 July 2012 and 20 May 2016

    N/A — reference resource · 2020-01-01

  • Khalifatul Masih V · Meeting with Virginia Khuddam members

    Social media addiction named as plain 'foolishness' once you know the harm

    Social media – you know that it is harmful. We all know it causes addiction. We know it damages our family relationships, our social relationships, and even affects our work and businesses. It is causing harm, and you are aware of it. When you know all this and still continue using it in the same way, what else can it be called except foolishness? The only solution is to have firm determination that you will not fall into these harmful practices.

    Meeting with Virginia Region Khuddam-ul-Ahmadiyya USA, 6 December 2025 (Press & Media Office)

    USA (virtual/in-person meeting) · 2025-12-01

  • Khalifatul Masih V · Address to children

    A direct warning to children themselves: idle scrolling can harm body and mind

    Idly watching TV, or scrolling endlessly on electronic devices can damage your physical and mental health.

    Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad (aba), quoted in 'Phones: A Love-Hate Relationship', Review of Religions

    Germany · 2019-01-01

    Verified source

    Publication: Cited in Review of Religions, 'Phones: A Love-Hate Relationship'

  • Khalifatul Masih V · This Week with Huzoor — timestamp 19:58

    'How can we safeguard ourselves from the addiction of mobile phones?'

    19:58 – How can we safeguard ourselves from the addiction of mobile phones?

    alislam.org episode page, This Week With Huzoor – 24 November 2023

    Broadcast mulaqat with Waqifaat-e-Nau, Belgium · 2023-11-24

    Verified source

    Publication: alislam.org video archive

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Coping tools for doom scrolling

A quick plan for the moment it happens, the settings that make scrolling less sticky, and words to start the conversation.

The 90-second reset

Use this the moment you or your child notice the scroll has taken over. Do it together the first few times.

  1. 1Name it out loud: "I have been scrolling and I did not choose to."
  2. 2Put the phone face down, at arm's length, or in another room.
  3. 3Take three slow breaths and unclench your jaw and shoulders.
  4. 4Stand up, stretch, drink some water, or step outside for a moment.
  5. 5Say a short prayer or dhikr, or read one verse — turn the attention upward.
  6. 6Decide the next thing on purpose: homework, a chore, a walk, or five minutes of talking.

Settings that make scrolling less sticky

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