Teens
Screens, mental health and depression
The effect of continuous use of social media upon the mind and heart of a child, and the measures parents may take to safeguard their well-being.
Resources
This Week With Huzoor — 18 December 2020 (online gaming addiction)
alislam.org
This Week With Huzoor — 18 December 2020 (online gaming addiction)
Al Islam (Official)
Maintaining Morality in the Online World
alislam.org
Maintaining Morality in the Online World
Al Islam (Official)
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Al Islam — Excessive use of TV & internet leads to neglect of worship
alislam.org
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Al Islam — Pornography addiction Q&A resource
alislam.org
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A Treasure House of Prayers
alislam.org
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My Book About God (children's book)
alislam.org
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The Dilemma of Intrusive Thoughts
alislam.org
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The Hygiene of Sleep
alislam.org
Verified guidance from the Ahmadiyya Muslim Jamaat
Directly sourced from Friday Sermons, Q&A sessions and official publications — no paraphrasing.
Khalifatul Masih V · Virtual mulaqat
'Mental health issues such as depression are an illness like any other' — a direct destigmatizing statement
“Mental health issues such as depression are an illness like any other and so they should be diagnosed and treated properly. No one should make fun of those suffering or take it lightly.”
MTA Studios, Islamabad, Tilford, UK (virtual meeting with Waqf-e-Nau girls, UK, aged 12–15) · 2022-05-08
Verified source
Publication: Press & Media Office, 11 May 2022
Khalifatul Masih V · Eid Sermon, discussed in a follow-up Review of Religions interview
Isolation intensifies grief; companionship and remembrance of God ease it
“His Holiness explained Islam's concept of happiness versus grief and explained that the gathering of people together and social interaction with others is what brings happiness. By contrast, grief and sorrow are intensified when a person prefers solitude and isolation.”
Not specified · 2021-05-13
Verified source
Publication: The Review of Religions
Al Islam editorial team · 'Quest of the Curious Muslim' Q&A series
'I feel very depressed. What can I do?' — a dedicated mental health FAQ resource
“Firstly, depression is not something to be ashamed of and one should always feel comfortable enough to open up and talk about it. It can range from being sad, due to the ups and downs of life, to a serious medical illness that needs to be treated through professional help.”
N/A — reference resource · 2020-01-01
Verified source
Publication: alislam.org
- TextAl Islam (Official)https://www.alislam.org/book/quest-of-curious-muslim/i-feel-very-depressed-what-can-i-do/
MTA / Al Islam programming team · English discussion programme on contemporary youth issues
A recorded discussion programme dedicated entirely to depression and mental health
“An English discussion programme about contemporary social issues affecting today's youth. Today we discuss depression and mental health.”
N/A — broadcast programme · 2020-01-01
Verified source
Publication: alislam.org video library
- VideoAl Islam (Official)https://www.alislam.org/video/depression-mental-health-2/
Khalifatul Masih V · Concluding Address, Lajna Ima'illah UK National Ijtema 2021
Children hiding harmful content from parents, and social media's mental-health toll
“There have been reports of children viewing inappropriate content, which they can instantly divert to a child-friendly programme when an adult enters, so the adults are left none the wiser... a report by the Wall Street Journal found that Instagram, which is owned by Facebook, tried to cover up its own internal study... It found that amongst those children in the UK who had suicidal thoughts, 13% admitted that it was their use of Instagram that had driven them to consider taking their own life.”
UK (national event) · 2021-01-01
Verified source
Publication: MTA International programme archive; cited by Al Hakam & Lajna UK Tarbiyyat Syllabus
- VideoMTA Internationalhttps://www.mta.tv/programme/101414/lajna-imaillah-uk-national-ijtema-2021-concluding-session
- TextThe Review of Religionshttps://www.reviewofreligions.org/34506/safeguarding-yourself-from-the-toxic-glamour-of-the-world/
Khalifatul Masih V · Friday Sermon, cited in Ask Islam FAQ
Pornography viewing described explicitly as an addiction
“In his Friday Sermon, dated July 6, 2012, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih V (may Allah be his Helper) speaks about the issue of pornography and says that "viewing such vain things, such films is a kind of addiction". Huzoor advised against forming friendships which cause a person to further indulge in such vain pursuits.”
Not specified in citing resource · 2012-07-06
Verified source
Publication: alislam.org, 'Quest of the Curious Muslim' resource
- VideoAl Islam (Official)https://www.alislam.org/friday-sermon/2012-07-06.html
- TextAl Islam (Official)https://www.alislam.org/book/quest-of-curious-muslim/what-can-i-do-if-i-am-addicted-to-pornography/
Al Islam editorial team · 'Quest of the Curious Muslim' Q&A series
A dedicated Q&A resource for pornography addiction, drawing on multiple sermons
“Advising those who are engaged in such bad habits, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih V (may Allah be his Helper) stresses that attention should be paid to remembrance of Allah, Istighfar, Durood, and prayers... pornography damages a person psychologically by putting him into the habit of objectifying women, and the human body in general. Further, it creates a view of sexuality that is far removed from reality.”
N/A — reference resource · 2020-01-01
Verified source
Publication: alislam.org
Khalifatul Masih V · Meeting with Virginia Khuddam members
Social media addiction named as plain 'foolishness' once you know the harm
“Social media – you know that it is harmful. We all know it causes addiction. We know it damages our family relationships, our social relationships, and even affects our work and businesses. It is causing harm, and you are aware of it. When you know all this and still continue using it in the same way, what else can it be called except foolishness? The only solution is to have firm determination that you will not fall into these harmful practices.”
USA (virtual/in-person meeting) · 2025-12-01
Verified source
Publication: Press & Media Office, December 2025
Khalifatul Masih V · Address to children
A direct warning to children themselves: idle scrolling can harm body and mind
“Idly watching TV, or scrolling endlessly on electronic devices can damage your physical and mental health.”
Germany · 2019-01-01
Verified source
Publication: Cited in Review of Religions, 'Phones: A Love-Hate Relationship'
- TextThe Review of Religionshttps://www.reviewofreligions.org/47816/phones-a-love-hate-relationship/
Khalifatul Masih V · This Week with Huzoor — timestamp 19:58
'How can we safeguard ourselves from the addiction of mobile phones?'
“19:58 – How can we safeguard ourselves from the addiction of mobile phones?”
Broadcast mulaqat with Waqifaat-e-Nau, Belgium · 2023-11-24
Verified source
Publication: alislam.org video archive
- VideoAl Islam (Official)https://www.alislam.org/video/this-week-with-huzoor-24-november-2023/
Trusted online-safety guidance
Verified advice on this topic from recognised child online-safety organisations.
Internet Matters
Keep Children Safe Online: Information, advice, support
“Working with online experts, we're here to provide parent, carers and professionals with advice and support to keep children safe online”
https://www.internetmatters.org/
Childline
Online safety
“You should feel good while you're online. To help you out, we've got tips, advice, and support you can use however you like.”
https://www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/bullying-abuse-safety/online-mobile-safety/
BBC Children in Need
Staying safe online
“Advice from BBC Children in Need on staying safe online, published on their Staying safe online page.”
https://www.bbcchildreninneed.co.uk/about-us/staying-safe-online/
Step-by-step digital detox programme
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Coping tools for doom scrolling
A quick plan for the moment it happens, the settings that make scrolling less sticky, and words to start the conversation.
The 90-second reset
Use this the moment you or your child notice the scroll has taken over. Do it together the first few times.
- 1Name it out loud: "I have been scrolling and I did not choose to."
- 2Put the phone face down, at arm's length, or in another room.
- 3Take three slow breaths and unclench your jaw and shoulders.
- 4Stand up, stretch, drink some water, or step outside for a moment.
- 5Say a short prayer or dhikr, or read one verse — turn the attention upward.
- 6Decide the next thing on purpose: homework, a chore, a walk, or five minutes of talking.
Settings that make scrolling less sticky
0 of 22 doneChange these together with your child and explain why. Tick them off as you go — your progress is saved on this device.
iPhone and iPad
Android
TikTok
YouTube
Conversation starters
Calm, curious openings — not accusations. Pick one and ask it tonight, or ask Tarbiyyat for help with the reply.
- How do you feel after an hour on the app — better, worse, or just flat?Ask this in the chat
- What does the feed keep showing you lately? Can I see?Ask this in the chat
- When is it hardest to stop scrolling — bedtime, after school, when you are bored?Ask this in the chat
- If we set one screen-free hour together, when should it be?Ask this in the chat
- Has anything online made you feel worse about yourself? You can tell me anything.Ask this in the chat
- What would you rather have done with that hour, honestly?Ask this in the chat
- Shall we both put our phones away before Maghrib and see how it feels?Ask this in the chat
- What could I do differently with my own phone to make this fairer?Ask this in the chat
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