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Doom scrolling and protecting attention

Why endless scrolling holds the attention so firmly, the harm it causes to concentration, and how families may reclaim their time for useful pursuits.

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This Week With Huzoor — 24 November 2023 (mobile phones)

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This Week With Huzoor — 24 November 2023 (mobile phones)

Al Islam (Official)

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Responsible Use of Internet and Social Media

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Responsible Use of Internet and Social Media

Al Islam (Official)

Practical solutions for your family

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Verified guidance from the Ahmadiyya Muslim Jamaat

Directly sourced from Friday Sermons, Q&A sessions and official publications — no paraphrasing.

  • Khalifatul Masih V · Address to children

    A direct warning to children themselves: idle scrolling can harm body and mind

    Idly watching TV, or scrolling endlessly on electronic devices can damage your physical and mental health.

    Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad (aba), quoted in 'Phones: A Love-Hate Relationship', Review of Religions

    Germany · 2019-01-01

    Verified source

    Publication: Cited in Review of Religions, 'Phones: A Love-Hate Relationship'

  • Khalifatul Masih V · Social Media (book), p. 36

    Facebook 'shatters boundaries' — named as the flagship example of the social-app category

    These days a new method of introduction has been created on the computer and the Internet called Facebook. ... It shatters the boundaries among people, boundaries from one another, boundaries around secrets. It exposes secrets and invites indecency.

    Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad, "Social Media" (guidance compilation), p. 36

    N/A — book excerpt · 2015-01-01

    Verified source

    Publication: alislam.org / official compilation

  • Khalifatul Masih V · This Week with Huzoor — timestamp 19:58

    'How can we safeguard ourselves from the addiction of mobile phones?'

    19:58 – How can we safeguard ourselves from the addiction of mobile phones?

    alislam.org episode page, This Week With Huzoor – 24 November 2023

    Broadcast mulaqat with Waqifaat-e-Nau, Belgium · 2023-11-24

    Verified source

    Publication: alislam.org video archive

  • Khalifatul Masih V · Friday Sermon

    Screen time at night undermines the quality of morning prayer

    You can observe this in most homes that the eldest to the youngest are not offering Fajr Salat on time as they were either watching TV or were online on the Internet until late, watching some program and, as a result, they could not wake up on time.

    Friday Sermon, 20 May 2016, Gothenburg Mosque, Sweden

    Baitul Futuh Mosque, London · 2013-03-15

    Verified source

    Publication: Al Fazl International, 5 April 2013

  • Khalifatul Masih V · Waqf-e-Nau Class

    Love of Allah cannot grow alongside TV-drama obsession

    If the worldly desire increases so that one is engrossed in TV dramas and the Internet and is late in offering Salat, then love for Allah cannot develop. Gaining this love requires sacrifice of desires.

    Waqf-e-Nau Class, 8 October 2011, Masjid Baitur Rasheed, Germany

    Masjid Baitur Rasheed, Germany · 2011-10-08

    Verified source

    Publication: Al Fazl International, 6 January 2012

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Coping tools for doom scrolling

A quick plan for the moment it happens, the settings that make scrolling less sticky, and words to start the conversation.

The 90-second reset

Use this the moment you or your child notice the scroll has taken over. Do it together the first few times.

  1. 1Name it out loud: "I have been scrolling and I did not choose to."
  2. 2Put the phone face down, at arm's length, or in another room.
  3. 3Take three slow breaths and unclench your jaw and shoulders.
  4. 4Stand up, stretch, drink some water, or step outside for a moment.
  5. 5Say a short prayer or dhikr, or read one verse — turn the attention upward.
  6. 6Decide the next thing on purpose: homework, a chore, a walk, or five minutes of talking.

Settings that make scrolling less sticky

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Change these together with your child and explain why. Tick them off as you go — your progress is saved on this device.

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