Family life
Building a calm, spiritual home environment
The atmosphere of a home leaves a deeper impression upon children than any rule. Guidance on making the home a place of worship, learning and mutual affection.
Resources
MTA — Family programmes
mta.tv
MTA — Family programmes
MTA International
Real Talk Canada — Challenges to Families
alislam.org
Real Talk Canada — Challenges to Families
Al Islam (Official)
The Internet and Instructions Regarding its Proper Use
alislam.org
The Internet and Instructions Regarding its Proper Use
Al Islam (Official)
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Al Islam — Family life
alislam.org
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Al Islam — Excessive use of TV & internet leads to neglect of worship
alislam.org
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Islamic Teachings for Ideal Family Life
alislam.org
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Islam and Marital Rights
alislam.org
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A Treasure House of Prayers
alislam.org
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Family Life — Islamic teachings on the home
alislam.org
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The Analog Soul in a Digital Age
alislam.org
Verified guidance from the Ahmadiyya Muslim Jamaat
Directly sourced from Friday Sermons, Q&A sessions and official publications — no paraphrasing.
Khalifatul Masih V · Friday Sermon
Household defences against distraction and Satan
“It is important to erect defenses against Satan in our homes that not only protect us from each attack but are also able to launch a counter attack. Do not let Satan enter your life by accepting his love as [true] love.”
Gothenburg Mosque, Sweden · 2016-05-20
Verified source
Publication: Al Fazl International, 10 June 2016
- VideoAl Islam (Official)https://www.alislam.org/friday-sermon/2016-05-20.html
- TextAl Islam (Official)https://www.alislam.org/book/social-media/excessive-use-of-tv-internet-leads-to-neglect-of-worship/
Khalifatul Masih V · Friday Sermon
Children copy their home environment — including its screen habits
“If the parents are virtuous, observe the Salat, read and recite the Holy Quran... then the children under their influence will adopt virtues... And even within the home they should keep an eye on the programs that they watch on television or their Internet usage.”
Baitul Futuh Mosque, London · 2013-12-13
Verified source
Publication: Al Fazl International, 3 January 2014
- TextAl Islam (Official)https://www.alislam.org/book/social-media/role-of-parents-in-training-of-children/
Khalifatul Masih V · Guidance to the National Amila (executive) of Finland
'Do not lose your own children while attempting to reform others'
“Do not lose your own children while attempting to reform others. That should be our foremost concern.”
Finland (virtual meeting) · 2021-11-07
Verified source
Publication: Al Hakam, 12 November 2021
Majlis Ansarullah UK (Short Question & Answers series) · Short Question & Answers — a recurring Ansarullah UK video series
'How can we instil a deep love for Khilafat in our children beyond mere routine?'
Q&A session by Majlis Ansarullah UK, on the subject of instilling a sincere love for Khilafat in children.
UK · 2025-01-01
Verified source
Publication: YouTube, Majlis Ansarullah UK
- VideoYouTube — Official channelhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=scUevCZaX2M&list=PLqzGGe3hL6s0aGnMx97QKEnY-jR4Nb9ia
Khalifatul Masih V · Friday Sermon
Any internet or TV use that displaces worship is a 'polytheistic gathering'
“Avoid all kinds of raucous and vulgar talk and polytheistic gatherings. Establish five daily prayers. Hence, you should not ignore any of the commandments of Allah.”
Frankfurt, Germany · 2017-04-21
Verified source
Publication: Al Fazl International, 12 May 2017
- VideoAl Islam (Official)https://www.alislam.org/friday-sermon/2017-04-21.html
- TextAl Islam (Official)https://www.alislam.org/book/social-media/believer-shuns-all-that-is-vain/
Trusted online-safety guidance
Verified advice on this topic from recognised child online-safety organisations.
Internet Matters
Keep Children Safe Online: Information, advice, support
“Working with online experts, we're here to provide parent, carers and professionals with advice and support to keep children safe online”
https://www.internetmatters.org/
Common Sense Media
Online Safety — Parenting, Media, and Everything in Between
“Get advice about Online Safety from Common Sense Media editors.”
https://www.commonsensemedia.org/articles/online-safety
ParentLine
Free Parent Helpline
“Free 24/7 parent helpline and online safety helpline for families worldwide. Professional guidance on parental controls, keeping children safe online, internet safety advice, and child protection. Available in 20 languages.”
https://parentline.ai
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